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Long distance is hard…
One look at the comments here at Ex Girlfriend Recovery can prove that.
Yesterday something happened on EGR (Ex Girlfriend Recovery) that has never happened before.
70% of the men that commented who were trying to get their girlfriends back were doing so from a failed long distance relationship. In other words, I have made a mistake in not writing this sooner. A lot of the men visiting this site have been struggling for a long time.
That ends today!
Usually when I write for EGR I write articles.
Well, this isn’t going to be an article…
This is going to be a guide.
1. Give yourselves a break:
You both need some time for yourselves. Do not go begging her to
reconsider the relationship. Do not send her text messages or make silly
Facebook posts. During this time, do not make any contact with her.
Ignore that urge to make her see you. Remember, the scarcer a thing is,
the more desirable it becomes. Make no contact at least for three weeks.
Don’t fret if she goes in to a new relationship. If you really had a
strong relationship, there is nothing to worry about. The new guy is
just a rebound and the relationship will most likely crash before you
know it.
2. Analyze your break up:
What was it that was not working about the relationship? Did you do all
the hard work to make the relationship work? Did you apologize every
time she did something wrong? Did you compliment her too much? Did you
tell her affirm your love more than she did? Were you insecure? Who
initiated the break up; was it you or her? What was the reason? These
are important questions that you need to find answers to.
3. Work on yourself:
Instead of letting your emotions run haywire, invest your time on
yourself. If you will stand any chance at getting her back, you need to
improve yourself. Hit the gym, get new clothes, earn more money, get a
new haircut, give your apartment a facelift, improve on your sense of
humor etc. Just make sure there is a better you.
4. Be on good terms with her close friends:
In this part of the world, hardly can your relationship work if her
friends are against you. Right now, her friends wield considerable
influence over her decisions. It is better they are on your side than
not. Keep in touch with them occasionally via phone calls or chats.
Remember, it should be occasional! if that Amina/chioma is not by your
side sometimes you are only wasting your time. girls have their own way
of thinking. her friends will most of the time succeed in sabotaging
your efforts. Be on good terms with them.
5. Re-establish rapport:
After you have taken time to work on yourself, establish rapport with
her. This is not the time to bring up relationship matters. At this
point, you have an advantage over other guys trying to date her because
you know her likes and dislikes which can aid you in conversing with
her. Your aim is to douse the tension between the two of you and get her
to relax. The best topic to discuss with a woman is herself. Keep your
chats interesting by talking about her. Employ your sense of humor as
often as you can.
6. Engage her emotions:
This is your best shot at getting her back. Women are not really wired
to make decisions basically on logic. A woman builds connection with a
guy based on how he makes her feel. One way of doing this is to engage
her discussions that gets her to talk about her deepest feelings about
various topics. If she can feel the emotions for you again, you have an
eighty percent chance if having her back. She will work her way around
logic when she sees that you have worked on yourself.
7. Set the stage for your reunion:
This is the moment you have waited for: to ask her out again. Not yet,
it will take a moment. Don’t rush to apologize and ask for a make-up.
Doing so will give her the chance to tell you no. Don’t allow that
opportunity. At this point, you need to act as though you are boyfriend
again. Relate with her as on an intimate basis. Naturally, she knows
what you are up to. If she raises it up, then, you can make your apology
speech. If she plays along, then flow with the tide. She most likely
wants it that way already.
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