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Long distance is hard…
One look at the comments here at Ex Girlfriend Recovery can prove that.
Yesterday something happened on EGR (Ex Girlfriend Recovery) that has never happened before.
70% of the men that commented who were trying to get their girlfriends back were doing so from a failed long distance relationship. In other words, I have made a mistake in not writing this sooner. A lot of the men visiting this site have been struggling for a long time.
That ends today!
Usually when I write for EGR I write articles.
Well, this isn’t going to be an article…
This is going to be a guide.
In every long term relationship, there are many fights. Many times, they result in break ups. If you believe your ex-partner is "the one", here are some tips on how to get her back.
Steps
- Don't get too jealous. Remember, jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss, such as a relationship, friendship, or love.
- Leave her alone. Give her some time to think about the relationship. If you had a great relationship, she'll feel that she misses you and will try to get back to you. When you do speak to her, do not be angry or demeaning. You need to be (or at least seem) cool, calm and in control of your life with or without her.
- Cut off all communication. This is tough and it will be killing you, but really it's killing her more. She's starting to realize how much she needs you and how much she misses you. Cutting off communication is the biggest step.
- Recover emotionally. You don't have a chance of getting your ex back if you're not emotionally calm and controlled. Women dislike needy, clingy, desperate men - so you need to pull your own life together before attempting to draw her back into it. Just be calm and collected about the whole situation, and make your life happier. Going for a jog or to the gym will make you feel better too.
- Start talking to another girl. This helps for many reasons. This will probably be too much for your ex. She will find out that you're talking to this girl, and it will get her back to you. Use with caution as it may give the wrong signals, such as a sign that she should move on because you have a new girlfriend.
- Act like nothing is wrong. She's not going to want you back if you're acting depressed. Make sure you're laughing a lot and pretending to have a good time. This is so hard because of the break up depression. Although if you dumped her she may like to see that you are a little depressed from the breakup, it will make her love you even more, because she knows that you care.
- Look your best. Make sure your acne is gone, you get yourself shaped up, and looking good. She won't be able to resist.
- Build up confidence. This is mostly a combination of the above. The best way to build up confidence is to model a person (real or imaginary) who you consider to be confident. Break down how they act (actions, emotions, speech, etc) and copy it. If you keep it up, you will become a more confident person - fake it till you make it at its best.
- If you want to get her back, then you should be the Alpha male. Get back the confidence you had earlier when you just began dating her.
- Figure out why one or both of you left. Many times the reason for the break up is a reason not to get back together. When it's not, you should still be aware of the problem and work together to make it work.
Tips
- Simply remember that she might have no intention of getting back together with you.
- Your ex will contact you. Even if it takes months, she is going to text you or call you. When she does this, you know your mission is accomplished. Now that she likes you again, bring back your charm that won her in the first place.
- The best way to reconnect with your ex is to invite her for lunch or something equally non-threatening and time-bound. This assures her that you won't overstay your 30-minute appointment, since both of you have to go back to work afterwards. Plus, if the meeting goes well, it provides a great opportunity to leave her begging for more!
- Once you're back together, sit down and discuss the issues that led to the break-up and how you're going to avoid them this time. There's no point going back into a relationship only to see it fall apart over the same problems a month down the line.
Warnings
- When your ex gets back in touch, DO NOT start talking to her about your relationship right away! Even if she desperately wants you back, she's probably not ready to talk about the break-up. Instead, pretend as if you had never dated and treat her purely as an old friend. This will help you put her at ease and allow you to gradually nudge her towards reconciliation rather than running the risk of scaring her away.
- Remember why you guys broke up in the first place, so you can learn from your own mistakes.
- Not every girl is prone to fall for you just because she is jealous, try a sweeter way and just talk to her.
- Never go unprepared when meeting your ex as it’d just draw your ex away from you. Getting your ex girlfriend back is not rocket science and you can win your ex girlfriend back by just following a game plan.
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