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Long distance is hard…
One look at the comments here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery can prove that.
Yesterday something happened on EGR (Ex Boyfriend Recovery) that has never happened before.
70%
of the men that commented who were trying to get their Boyfriend back
were doing so from a failed long distance relationship. In other words,
I have made a mistake in not writing this sooner. A lot of the men
visiting this site have been struggling for a long time.
That ends today!
Usually when I write for EGR I write articles.
Well, this isn’t going to be an article…
This is going to be a guide.
Here is a question that people have all the time. Is writing letters to get your ex back
really a good idea? There are many people that write letters, text
messages, e-mails and just about every other form of text-based
correspondence that you can think of on a daily basis. Many of these
people will resort to that form of communication when trying to get an
ex-lover to fall in love with them again.
In order to truly comment on how effective this method is, we need to
examine both the good points and the bad points about it. The good to
writing letters is that they will allow you to express feelings that you
might not otherwise be able to express. There are plenty of people
that can say more in text than they’d ever be able to say verbally. So
if letters are helping you with the communication process, they can
definitely be a good thing.
On the other hand, letters are also quite impersonal. People that are
broken up with over the phone, over an instant messaging program,
through mail or even by text-message are people that tend to really hold
grudges. The most honest way to break up with someone is in person,
although many people just don’t have the gumption to do it this way.
Just as this is true with breakups, so too is it true with everything
else related to relationships. If you want to get your ex back, the
letter might not be the best way to communicate that information.
This is actually even more evident if you go back and look at the
previous good point about writing letters. Even though they can help
you communicate things that you find hard to communicate verbally, your
ex probably already knows that. Therefore, learning to communicate
those things verbally shows that you can change for the better for your
ex and that is something that is more likely to make them come back to
you than a written letter.
Generally speaking though, all of this might be a bit of an academic
debate. The reason for that is that many times the direct approach is
not the best one when it comes to get your ex back.
Writing letters to get your ex back by definition involves the direct
approach. If your goal with the letter is to start up the relationship
again, you can do nothing but take the direct approach. The closer to
the breakup you write the letter, the less likelihood there is of the
direct approach being able to work.
Most people would advise that you go with the indirect approach. Let
your relationship with your ex grow back into friendship after the
breakup and then take the opportunity to reignite the relationship when
it comes along. That is far more indirect than direct in nature and
naturally does not involve the writing of any letters. This means that
at best, there is debate going back and forth about how beneficial
letter writing actually is.
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