Building comfort with your ex boyfriend

Building comfort with your ex boyfriend

It’s no secret that a man’s ego has a powerful pull on him.

In fact this hardwired need to impress and to WIN is so deeply embedded into the male mind...

That nearly everything a man truly desires is based around this biological “drive” to prove, succeed and to win.

It’s why so many men become workaholics, gym junkies or become obsessed with their hobbies.

But what most women don’t know...

...is how deeply this “drive” is connected to his love, desire, and attraction for the woman in his life.

And I’m about to show you how you can “tap into” a man’s ege to refocus that same drive and gut level obsession...

...on pleasing you, romancing you, and proving his love for you like you’re his sole purpose in life.

Here’s how: ==> The “Go Ahead” Signal That Makes Him Obsessed With Winning Your Love

P.S. When you tap into a man’s ego this way, you can cause him to literally become obsessed with proving his love for you. So please don’t use this on a man unless you are ready for something serious.

Building comfort with your ex boyfriend

You’ve made contact with your ex, maybe he wasn’t thrilled to hear from you, but he is replying to your messages, which means you still have a chance to get him back.

You need to build comfort and make yourself a priority in his life again.

Remember. You’re building a NEW relationship. Nostalgia isn’t allowed at this stage. Don’t remind him of that romantic trip to Paris, if he still holds any negative feelings towards you he won’t remember the steamy night you spent together, instead he’ll remember how much you complained about the travel arrangements and the number of towels in the hotel.

New memories ONLY at this stage.

You need to get your ex to meet up with you for this to work, texting won’t cut it.

Arrange to do something together. Something you’d do with a friend, nothing romantic. This could be a shopping trip (you know he needs a new jacket for that ski trip with his parents he had planned), or ask him to help you out with something.

What you do isn’t important, just spend some time with him.

If he says no, or that he’s busy, or gives you any excuse or reason other than “Stay the hell away from me!” then you just try again with a different activity in a couple of days. Don’t make a big deal out if it, the image you are projecting is that it isn’t a big deal.

If he’s the sort of guy who’s always busy you may have to be persistent here, but it will be worth it.

When you are together, make some small talk. Don’t talk about the past, keep things in the present. Talk about a new project you have coming up at work, or the paper you are writing for college. Keep things upbeat and positive.

It’s important to be a bit flirty at this stage. Don’t stick your tongue down his throat, but make sure to touch him as much as possible without being weird. If you’re walking together, link arms. Don’t make a big deal out of it and he won’t either.

If you’re doing all of this right you should be on friendly terms with your ex, but you won’t be stuck in his friendzone.
It’s important to FLIRT. If you don’t flirt you’ll be crying into a bowl of Ben and Jerrys after he uses you as his wing girl to get with the blonde at the bar. You need to make things clear to him that you are more than just a friend.

So you’ve followed all my advice so far. How’s it working out for you?

He’s replying to your texts and you guys are spending time together?
Fab. On to the next step.